Monday, November 5, 2012

L3- Top 10 Values



Top 10 Values


  1. Compassion
  2. Honest / Ethical
  3. Kind
  4. Love
  5. Sincere concern and desire to help others
  6. Trustworthy
  7. Strong work ethic
  8. Calm in an emergency
  9. Proactive
  10. Protective


Compassion: Often, I have been told that I am a compassionate and emphatic person. I really want the best for my friends, family and individuals I come into contact with. I feel for animals, kids, the elderly and most people in general. I believe all people regardless of who, what or where they are from deserve to be treated respectfully regardless of what their situation may be. Individuals are responsible for their own actions and should be held accountable, however we do need to be humane to the fellow occupants of this earth.

Honest / Ethical:  I try my best to always be honest and ethical. I believe that my words and actions should be in complete agreement at all times. Individuals who present themselves in an honest light yet behave in unethical ways behind closed doors are untrustworthy and often dangerous on many levels. I have worked in the financial / mortgage industry for over twenty years; I am happy to say most individuals I have had dealings with are mostly honest and ethical individuals. However, I have worked with and had clients who were not honest in their business practices and seem to feel their livelihood gives them license to bend the rules by omitting pertinent information or telling “Little White Lies” as acceptable and even expected. It makes me wonder when it became acceptable to justify being purposely deceptive with a cute excuse of using a “Little White Lie” as if there is something endearing about lying.

Kind: This is obvious, be kind to all you meet regardless if they are old, young, human or other. Use your mother’s advise…. just be nice and if you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all, unlike Clairee in Steele Magnolias who says "Well, you know what they say: if you don't have anything nice to say about anybody, come sit by me!"

Love: I love my family and dear friends so very much. I believe that your friends are your chosen family which makes showing them love and friendship easy. But offering love to strangers is not comfortable or easy. I really do care for those around me, which is one of the reasons I want to be a nurse.

Sincere concern and desire to help others:   I desire to help people and make a difference. My previous career as a mortgage processor / loan officer helped people to get into homes, but it really wasn’t a job to feel that anything I did made a difference. My choice to be a nurse I think will satisfy my desire and need to help others.

Trustworthy:  I am a very trustworthy person. I feel a great responsibility to be respectful of the privacy of others. The private information shared with me in confidence needs to remain just that, confidential as it is not my story or information to share.

Strong work ethic:  I am a hard worker and take pride in the work I do. I expect the best possible results of myself and strive to satisfy my employer, clients, coworkers and of course most importantly, myself. My work ethic encompasses so much of who I am and I desire to not only do the basic job and duties I was hired for, but to look at what is going on around me and assist where needed. I cannot just sit and do nothing while my employer is paying me.

Calm in an Emergency: Being calm in an emergency, or at least the emergencies I have experienced to date, is something I have a knack for. I seem to be able to act, focus and control emergency situations. I have hopes that this will be a benefit to my future career.

Proactive: Being proactive and having the ability to seek out what is needed in a given situation and act to get it taken care of is something I feel is a strength that benefits those around me. I often frustrate other coworkers as I am unable to just sit and wait for either a client or someone to come and give me an assignment. I expect hard work from myself and others as well. I often end up in a position where I need to direct others to accomplish certain tasks that are things that need to be done. My “motto” if you will is that there is always something that needs doing, it may not be what one wants to do, needs doing none the less.

Protective/Loyal: I am fiercely protective over my loved ones and with those who I work with. Often I have had to step in and protect a coworker from a frustrated customer. As far as my family goes, I will always fiercely protect them